1. Be patient to your partner;
avoid putting your lover on tension to do something
which he or she is not
ready to do. Let everything
come automatically in the
right time. No need to rush.

2. Always spare time for your lover; Cease telling
your spouse all the time that
you are busy. When will
you have time for him or her?
Recall in the past you
had time to corn her, to call or text him but now why
can’t you? Come on try to fix
some time for your
dude or babe, meet and have
fun and some good
memorable moments.
3. Be an understanding partner;
Try to believe what
your lover tells you, if he tells
you that he failed to
get credit to call on you try to
understand it. He’s also a human being like you. If she
tells you that by the
time you called her she was
asleep, try to understand
it. She also gets tired and she
needs to rest like any other person.

4. Always forgive and forget;
avoid bringing back the
old things your lover did to you
in the past every time
you get a tiff.
5. Be caring; with the care I
don't mean you go
borrow money from the bank
and friends and buy
for your partner costly things,
to take him or her in expensive hotels... I mean doing
the little things that
suit in your wallet. Trust me if
your lover is well
raised and understanding h/she
will appreciate and love you that way.

6. Maintain the communication
with your lover; Try
keeping in touch with your
partner, call or text him
or her, don’t allow your babe or dude to start
missing you. Be closer in any
possible way.

7. Be faithful and trustworthy to
your dude or babe; I
know you may be distant from your partner, then
you start doubting him or her
that maybe he or she
is cheating on you or busy with
someone else
because h/she no longer does this and that hence
you also start flirting and
sleeping around with
different people which isn’t
good at all. Fight those
false thoughts so that they don’t take you off track.
Trust in your partner if you
really love him or her
and be faithful.

8. Avoid listening to rumors;
these rumors are spread by people who don’t
have what to do, they
keep gathering false info and
then they spread it to
you. the majority of them have
intensions which aren’t good. Some are
interested in your lover, they
admire the way h/she cares and
loves you. So they
build up fake stories just to
make you hate and dump your partner and in turn they
replace you. Watch out
for them.

9. Avoid being nagging all the
time; stop accusing
your lover falsely all the time just because you want
him or her to be guilty, you well
know that your
partner wasn’t involved in
something but you’re
constantly pinning him or her. why?, stop your
games of complaining all the
time over small things
just because you want your
lovers attention and to
be the controller. Such acts may make your partner
start losing the love they had
for you hence paving a
way for a break up.

10. Don’t be a dependant to
your partner; Try contributing in some things,
seriously stop being a
parasite to your guy, share the
bills together and
have a say in some things since
you’re also part of the relationship. Don’t make
your partner to be the
controller and the decision
maker of the relationship.

11. Be honest to your lover;
Avoid lying and fooling your partner, lies won’t get you
any prize, stick on the
truth no matter it’s hurting

12. Respect your lover; if he is
the man or she’s woman of your life then why
disrespecting him or
her? Don’t back at your partner,
pay attention to what
h/she says, don’t undervalue
him or her, be a listening mate and do what your
lover wants.

13. Give your man or woman
some privacy; Avoid
checking each and everything of
his or hers, give your lover some space and
freedom, try to have
some trust in your partner no
matter you don’t stay
or move together, don’t touch
your mate’s phone. Seriously you found your lover
with friends; h/she
has to keep in touch with them.
They are not his
girlfriends or her boyfriends.
Your girl is that beautiful type, she has guys
that try to corn her but
she doesn’t love them and she
can’t sleep with any.
It’s you that she chose out of a
million men that approach her. She loves you.

14. Stop bringing back the past;
I know your partner
jazzed you about his or her past
experiences in love
which weren’t so good. But stop rerating everything
h/she does today to his or her
past. Let it not be a
daily song or a weapon to use
to silent your dude or
babe all the time. Seriously your partner jazzed you
about it because h/she loves
you so much and
needed you to know him or her
very well.

15. Always mean it when you tell your partner that
you love him or her; Don’t just
say that word just to
make your mate feel good, let it
be from the heart
and accompany it with actions that will make your
dude or babe believe it that you
truly adore him or