"11 Super Qualities That Describe A Husband Material"


What effort have you made
regarding finding a man who
stands out? What are the signs
that reveals he’s not husband
material? What are the qualities
you look out for in a man? This is not going to be the Tiwa
Vs Tee billz choice on whatever
either of them cherished about
the other. This is going to be
more on checking for the
qualities that makes a man; a real man. If your man does not
possess any of these awesome
characteristics, it is time to ditch
him for a better alternative.
Remember, it all drops down to
choosing wisely on a man you want to share the rest of your life
with. But, unless you want to be
my next line of story on divorce.
Basically, there are qualities
which every man should
possess to qualify into the “husband material” league.
While looking for a life partner, it
is essential to look out for those
qualities in your man.
*Caring *God fearing
*Romantic, etc.
The above, tops all possible
qualities every woman wants in
her man. How then, would you
ensure your “husband to be” has all these traits?
In the journey of choosing a life
partner, below are the qualities
you need to watch out for in
your man before saying YES to his proposal. 1. Emotional maturity How well his he able to control
his impulse when argument
becomes tough between you
two? Look for a man who is able
to calm himself during stress,
disappointment and pressure; a man who would rather not
unleash his annoyance on you
during this time. He should be
able to attend to issues as they
come and proffer positive
solutions. He must be able to confront challenges in a steady
and responsively manner. 2. He shares virtually
everything with you Changing one’s orientation from
a particular belief; how you
decide to live your life, is why
alot of people don’t share their
secrets. Besides, it is very difficult
to have your mind changed overnight on something you’ve
abide to, for a very long time.
You know you are making a
perfect choice if he’s open to
sharing everything with you
without reservations. Most importantly, he looks into the
future and share plans and
values regarding all that brings
happiness into the marriage. He
would be careful not to totally
take charge of defining how the future ends with you both, by
ensuring his plan corresponds
with those you have in mind too.
When you see a man who’s on
the same lane with you, he might
just be the one. 3. Must be apologetic It is easy to spot a man who’s full
of himself from a distance. A man
who would prefer being
nicknamed “tough”, even at the
expense of taking your feelings
for granted. Study your man, and ensure he feels truly sorry
whenever he did something
wrong to you or to someone
else. A man who would make a
great husband, would do all it
takes to bring back the smile he caused you to lose. 4. He must be a great
motivator A happy life comes with the
feeling of being appreciated. No
one knows it all. In this regard,
how is he able to appreciate the
little you can do perfectly? A
husband material will appreciate your good food, embrace you
for being so organized, and
encourage you from time to
time. Ensure your man is capable
of making you feel appreciated.
You are most likely to live a happy life when your man is
intentionally willing to
demonstrate his respect to you,
through his actions and words.
His level of education does not
matter here. If he is able to give indepth recommendations and
advice which inturn, helps in
making awesome decisions, you
can always trust your instincts of
leading you to a right choice of
man. Shall we talk about your flaws
and little shortcomings? Your
husband-to-be must accept and
deal with the fact that you are
human, and are bound to
limitations too. 5. His ability to maintain
healthy conversations It is okay to disagree with each
other once in a while, but how
does he handle the scenario?
What makes a marriage is the
ability of each couple, especially
the man, to know his way around conflicts. One who is
going to make a great husband
should be able to calm a heat
conversation. 6. Not prying into your privacy In real sense, every man must
respect your privacy. Digging
beyond to know who that text
messages and your last call is
coming from, as well as trying to
know the relationship between you and the sender would only
give him a cause to lose trust.
Why then would you want to be
with a man who doesn’t trust
you? 7. What has changed since
you met him It doesn’t matter if you have
being with your partner for over
2 years, neither does it matter if
your love game is below 2
months. Ask yourself what has
changed in your life, or what impact has being in a
relationship with him generates.
You aimed to being better on the
things you can do, but would
appreciate being the best at it.
What are his contribution towards helping you achieve
your objectives? 8. A man who does not restrict
you to certain things You are who you are. Therefore,
there shouldn’t be any set rules
binding you from doing certain
things in the relationship. A man
who threatens you with a
breakup “if you don’t come spend the weekend” is NOT a
husband material! This is the
kind who will always have you
caged in marriage with a selfish
“do” and “don’t” rules. 9. One who respects your
family Started from the bottom, says
Drake. It is never too early for a
good man, who is willing to
become a good husband to
show respect to every members
of your family. 10. A man who can satisfy you
in bed No no, no way! I can imagine
what runs through your head as
you see this part. I’m still an
advocate of “no s*x before
marriage” so it’s not what you
think. His ability to satisfy you in bed goes beyond intimacy
alone. He should be able to do
the things you derive pleasure
from. If he is able to SATISFY YOU
in bed, you won’t have to get
such happiness anywhere else. Do you understand? *Winks 11. Must take your
relationship seriously. Be careful about making
decisions around this reason.
Men huzzles. They work and get
paid to be able to fund some
personal bills. All the same, a
man should be there for his partner when he is needed. He
must place issues regarding
your relationship on priority.
Relationship is time and
commitment. Both works hand
in hand.